You can get as picky and self righteous as you like, you have that right, but it would be nice if you were to also engage in some self-analysis. What you do isn't necessarily wrong, but you'd be so much better off if you were to adopt a more congenial, collegiate, understanding, productive approach, IMO, instead of endlessly chasing people (someone) down. I don't mean this as a criticism, I just think it would be healthier for you. I think many of us (me included) could benefit from the same philosophy.