Lol. Anyone who says there's no effort required in a long term relationship is either a liar, or has married a slave.
Lol. Anyone who says there's no effort required in a long term relationship is either a liar, or has married a slave.
thats not how i see it at all, i raised my daughter as a single dad, and the was no effort or compromise and a marrage should be the same,
That just explains why you had 2 failed marriages.
I don't believe at all you did not put in any effort or compromised your life at all in order to raise your daughter as a single dad.
You seem to be struggling to cope with the fact couples can have happy successful life long marriages albeit it is harder for young couples today.
As long as you are happy that is what matters but what makes you happy might not be what other people want and vice-versa.
@DonaldB has written: @Ghundred has written: @DonaldB has written: @Ghundred has written: @DonaldB has written: @DanHasLeftForum has written: @DonaldB has written:i got married on a beach on a remote island, why would you get married in a church ๐
It depends on whether you believe in, understand and follow the teachings in the "Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth" and the Sacrament of Marriage, and what it means and represents, some religions have.
A marriage ceremony within a church is both a spiritual and civil wedding. A marriage outside a church is just a civil wedding.
The "civil" component is what is required by law for a marriage to be legal.
I tried both, and in both cases it wasnt worth the paper it was writtern on. ๐ wont be marrying a 3rd time its a joke.
100% nailed it. It's about both parties wanting to have a life together, and making compromises for that to happen. Absolutely zero to do with that bit of paper that satisfies the law.
im happy and live an un-compromised life ๐
I said I'd never get married again. Then someone comes along, gets under your skin, and to satisfy the law you find yourself married again. Life is all about compromises. Being in a happy long term relationship is part of life, and I think it's a pretty damn good part of it. If it wasn't, I'd have no hesitation in walking away, despite that worthless little bit of paper. But you've both got to be willing to put in the effort. Because there is effort required. From both parties involved.
thats not how i see it at all, i raised my daughter as a single dad, and the was no effort or compromise and a marrage should be the same, but if that was the case you have married the wrong genetic partner as we are suppose to mate with our genes being as far apart as possible, my daughter a bio major said well dad at least you mated with the right person but cant live with them ๐ and my daughter just received an academic excellence award so shes living proof ๐๐
Lol. Anyone who says there's no effort required in a long term relationship is either a liar, or has married a slave.
i went out with a lady 25 years ago that worked at a primary school. she said only 2 out of 36 students in her class the parents were still together .๐คจ
That just explains why you had 2 failed marriages.
thats why all my previous wifes and long term girlfriends all want to get back with me ๐๐
my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
when i go to a live concert where my daughter is performing i couldnt think of anything worst than taking a partner, i dont need the distraction.
@DanHasLeftForum has written:That just explains why you had 2 failed marriages.
thats why all my previous wifes and long term girlfriends all want to get back with me ๐๐
my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
when i go to a live concert where my daughter is performing i couldnt think of anything worst than taking a partner, i dont need the distraction.
Lol. And here we have the ultimate example of not making any effort
my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
That's fine and supports my earlier comments in that marriage is not for you and that what you want and makes you happy is not always what everyone else wants and makes them happy and vice versa.
My wife is my travel partner and I am hers. She has her own hobbies and it works very well for us.
@DonaldB has written: @DanHasLeftForum has written:That just explains why you had 2 failed marriages.
thats why all my previous wifes and long term girlfriends all want to get back with me ๐๐
my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
when i go to a live concert where my daughter is performing i couldnt think of anything worst than taking a partner, i dont need the distraction.Lol. And here we have the ultimate example of not making any effort
quite the opposite ive lost 2 homes that i built with my bare hands and my wifes couldnt even bring a cold drink in the middle of summer to me . not only did i raise my daughter but i worked and built a new home at the same time. tell me of any wife/female that can/has done that ๐
@DonaldB has written:my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
That's fine and supports my earlier comments in that marriage is not for you and that what you want and makes you happy is not always what everyone else wants and makes them happy and vice versa.
My wife is my travel partner and I am hers. She has her own hobbies and it works very well for us.
has she got a sister ๐
@DanHasLeftForum has written: @DonaldB has written:my next partner better own her own home and have her own hobbies, i just want a travel partner, and them to go home to there own home after a good trip ๐
That's fine and supports my earlier comments in that marriage is not for you and that what you want and makes you happy is not always what everyone else wants and makes them happy and vice versa.
My wife is my travel partner and I am hers. She has her own hobbies and it works very well for us.
has she got a sister ๐
Yes she has but she's happily married for near enough to thirty years now.
Good luck in finding your ideal travel partner.
That link shows that whoever steve_z is, he/she told dpr admin to close the account and he/she will start a new one because the dpr challenges hosts can see the usernames behind challenge entries.
Who cares who people think is at the danhasleftforum computer at any time. It makes no difference to him/her so danhasleftforum is happy to be whoever anyone would like them to be ๐
Lol...nice try David.
Even tasad over at DPR confirmed no rules were broken by the users of those accounts.
www.dpreview.com/forums/post/67506617
It makes no difference to me who people think is sitting at the danhasleftforum computer at any particular time ๐๐
Whether people choose to believe they are all the same person or multiple people makes no difference to me as no dpr forums rules have been broken and it makes no difference in the real world if it is the same person or not at the danhasleftforum computer. ๐
Post a link to any rule that you can prove has been broken along with the proof
I know you won't be able to to ๐๐
@DanHasLeftForum has written:That link shows that whoever steve_z is, he/she told dpr admin to close the account and he/she will start a new one because the dpr challenges hosts can see the usernames behind challenge entries.
Lol...nice try David.
This is what I found at dpr
That link shows that whoever steve_z is ...
Pretty amusing. Anyone paying attention knows that you are (were) steve_z.
Let the denials and deflections begin.
There is no need for me to confirm or deny anything for the reasons posted earlier.