It's OK to teach simplified models, if the student is warned that they are simplifications.
I remember in third grade we were learning subtraction (something I'd taught myself earlier, but there's no accommodation for that in grade school. : “What do you get when you subtract 3 from 2?”. I was the only student who raised my hand. She called on me.
“Minus 1,” I said, with a lot of confidence. That confidence was based on reading. My mother’s brother, Uncle Bill, taught math at Choate, and he and two other faculty members had written a set of high school textbooks. We had copies of all of them. One of them was called Elementary Algebra. I’d been reading that algebra book at home before dinner.
Minus one wasn’t the answer my teacher was looking for. She told me, and the class, in emphatic terms, that you can’t subtract three from two, you had to borrow from the column to the left to make the 2 into 12, and then you could subtract 3, leaving you with 9. I argued my case and was overruled. The next day I brought the text in and showed her. She said it was wrong. Not just wrong in the context she intended, but flat wrong. I was uncowed, but finally shut up. She didn’t call on me much after that.
That sticks in my mind partially because the injustice seemed like a big deal to a 9-year-old boy