Most of the time, I probably make my cameras settings the same as Dan, or at least similar. I lock in both the shutter speed and the aperture with M mode, then I let the ISO "float" to wherever it needs to go with autoISO. The reason is that I often know pretty much what shutter speed I need and I like to stop down my lens often to control that depth of field. I can never guess what ISO level is appropriate but I better know what I need for the shutter speed and aperture. If the ISO level is surprisingly high, then I'll make other adjustments to bring that down if I can, and still have a nice photo. This is important for me at people events, as you see that I take pictures at a lot of them. I just don't like blurry photos because of the motion. If the backgrounds are soft because of the wrong aperture or focal length, I don't like that either. With blurry or soft backgrounds, it's to me "distracting elements". Now some photographers don't mind it, and often you'll see pictures of people with those out-of-focus backgrounds. But I don't like it, so that's why I have adopted my method. I'll find that people move in and out of the shadows, or the sun will come and go a lot. So the camera will adjust the ISO for that. Meanwhile I'll have the shutter speed I want and the depth of field. Most of the time, the only time I'll have out-of-focus backgrounds, is if it looks nice and not distracting (at least that's my goal even though it doesn't happen all of the time). That occurs a lot when I'm taking wildlife photos with my telephoto lens. Recently I took a picture of a woodpecker in a tree. There was one out-of-focus branch. Fortunately I was able to copy and paste that away for the background was the sky.
Now, if I'm taking a landscape photo where there's no motion, I could do it differently (like use aperture priority). But often now I do it the same in M mode and keep my eye on the ISO level each time. What's nice about these modern cameras is that they will take really nice photos at very high ISO levels (that is, they are quite "forgiving" for these high levels), especially if you use a full frame camera. I don't mind a little noise if I don't have a blurry or soft photo.
Sometimes I'll use the silent feature on my camera and the camera automatically makes all the settings. I did that an indoor performance three times. I had to do it that way to not disturb the audience. I would prefer to have a camera with a silent feature that allows more more controls by the photographer. The Canon R8 may do that. I'll have to research that some more because the fastest silent shutter speed I was able to have was 1/250th of a second with the Canon RP. I would have liked to have been able to use 1/500th of a second even though I would have higher noise with a full frame camera.
In some rare occasions I might go completely manual in M mode with ISO, aperture and shutter speeds all being set. That works great if the lighting does not change, but here in Oregon we often have fluctuating light with the sun coming in and out of the clouds. R2D2 on Dpreview said that is what he uses (that is, all manual). It can make sense in some cases.
That being said, what you use or do could be fine for the type of photos you take...whatever is comfortable for you. And remember...we can change our minds...for what we do today may be different tomorrow. 😀