And we welcome you to keep on discussing, because in that we totally agree. The value in posting to a forum or club is not always in the making or the showing but in the interaction with others around the images. After years posting on forums, I still mostly show the images I am undecided about rather than the ones I'm confident of. It can sometimes help focus the conversation if you ask a specific question or two. For example, this week I posted an image I have low confidence in. In addition to lighting problems, it has two subjects on slightly different planes and I needed feedback on managing the focus differential before tackling the lighting. So I asked that. It may help with some more experimental images to clarify what you want to know most of all. And it doesn't have to be a technical question, it can be a question about story or mood or whatever.
I had the opportunity last fall to spend a day with Freeman Patterson, a photographer I greatly admire, not only for his photography but for his writing. One of the concepts he teaches is that our photography is a reflection of our inner life - the ups and downs, the struggles, the wins, the losses. He says we can review our work over time and find a map of our lives. That's a pretty interesting concept to consider.