Agreed. I think you will find that 99% of people don't consider perspective (or compression) when taking an image. In the majority of cases (I include myself here) people are far more interested in capturing the scene or moment before them. Few people stop and consider how they want the image to look in respect to how the background relates to the subject before them, and when it comes to smartphone users its likely no one is considering these considerations, and there are far more smartphone images being taken than any other form these days.
For those of us who may well consider background to subject to foreground as part of our image process, most of us know that if we want bokeh in our images we can use short focal length lenses. If we want the perspective to be somewhat compressed, we can accomplish that with a telephoto lens or use this technique to create some nice background blur. "Zooming" with your feet can also do the trick.
At the end of the day, I'm not interested in doing complicated calculations in my head, I'm interested in taking a photo.
When I took the photo of the bird I was only interested in the bird, not how the background would look. In this case the bird was 20 meters from me, I was using me Fuji HS20EXR at 87mm focal length to "zoom in". I wanted the bird to fill the majority of the left side of the frame. The background was incidental to the intent of the image. The elderly couple in the background are a good 200 meters beyond the bird and the building in the background is a further 100 meters beyond the couple walking. Was I taking all this into consideration? No, I was interested in the pose of the bird, I intrinsically know that anything beyond the point of focus will be out of focus, more or less so depending upon F ratio used.
The point is had I been using a 40 mm lens I would have had to halve my distance to the bird to get the same effect, which would have made the bird fly away. This is what was demonstrated in the video I alluded to, however Its not something I ever truly worry about when taking photos unless I'm working off a tripod with a fixed subject, which I almost never do.